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The New Jersey State Police defines sexual violence in the following way:

Sexual Violence is any form of unwanted, unwelcome or coercive sexual behavior. Sexual violence exists on a continuum from sexual harassment to rape and can include anything from stalking/sexual stalking on the internet to inappropriate touching to penetration without the victim’s (a) consent or (b) with a victim who is unable to consent.


A victim who is unable to consent is someone:

    1. Under the age of 13

    2. At least 13, but less than 16 years old and the actor is at least four         years older than the victims

    3. At least 16, but less than 18 years old and:

           - The actor is related to the victim by blood or affinity

             to the third degree

           - The actor has supervisory or disciplinary power over the

             victim by virtue of The actor’s legal, professional or                         occupational status

           - The actor is a resource family parent, a guardian, or

             stands in loco parentis within the householdWith diminished

             mental capacity


    4. The victim is one whom the actor knew or should have known was                 physically helpless, mentally incapacitated, or had a mental disease           or defect ​which rendered the victim temporarily or permanently                 incapable of understanding the nature of his conduct, including, but           not limited to being incapable of providing consent.  This includes a           victim who is drunk, drugged, high, unconscious, or has a developmental         disability.


What is sexual assault?

Sexual Assault, often referred to as rape, is legally defined differently in each state. In New Jersey, the law defines sexual assault as "the penetration, no matter how slight, in which physical force or coercion is used or in which the victim is physically or mentally incapacitated". For the full definition of sexual assault please refer to NJSA 2C:14-1.

The law in New Jersey, which is gender neutral, does not specify male or female, but uses the words "actor" and "victim" to describe the persons involved.

Consent: According to New Jersey law, age, physical impairment and mental impairment all contribute to a person's ability to give consent. A person must be 16 years of age to legally consent to sexual activity. A person cannot give consent to sexual activity with someone who has "the duty to care" for them unless they are over the age of 18. Individuals that fall into "the duty to care" category would include parents or guardians, and those in any type of formal supervisory role. If individuals are at least 13 years old, but less than 16 years old they can legally consent to sexual activity with a partner who is not more than 4 years older than themselves.

An individual who is physically or mentally impaired, generally, cannot give consent to sexual activity. Physical or mental impairment includes: visual, speech or hearing impaired, a person with a cognitive impairment; a person who is unconscious or sleeping; or a person who is voluntarily or involuntarily under the influence of alcohol or other substance(s).

Criminal Sexual Contact is legally defined as "intentional, non-consensual touching by the victim or actor, either directly or through clothing, of a victim's or actor's sexual organs, genital area, anal area, inner thigh, groin, buttock or breast, for the purpose of degrading or humiliating the victim or sexually arousing or sexually gratifying the actor" (NJSA 2C:14-3).

Sexual Violence can happen to anyone regardless of employment or educational level, race or ethnic background, religion, marital status, physical ability, age or sexual orientation.

What is Sexual Violence?